The more things change, the more they stay the same (or get worse)

“Make no mistake: this kind of harassment can be as frightening and as real as being followed and watched in your neighborhood or in your home.”

Vice President Al Gore

This from: 1999 Report on Cyberstalking:  A New Challenge for Law Enforcement and Industry.

When this report was written, most of the Social Networking sites that are ubiquitous now did not even exist. The potential now for the average individual to be at risk has increased exponentially. Incidents of cyberstalking, identity theft and online character assassination have all skyrocketed, mirroring the growth of the Internet. Especially at risk are our youth who our more likely to be careless with thier personal information. The increase in cyberstalking and online character assassination among teens is alarming. Businesses are also at increasing risk as most now have an online presence, and disgruntled customers or employees have a convenient outlet for retaliation. A brand new industry has come into existence to help individuals and businesses deal with this problem: Online Reputation Management or ORM. I’ll be writing more about this in future articles.

~Matt Parker

Thanks from Matt and Anna Parker

We just want to say thank you to our friends, and also to the many strangers out there in cyber-space who wrote to offer us support and to share their similar experiences. Much appreciated!

We’re happy to report that things have been quiet now for some time. While we still suffer from the libel spread about us by this individual in the past, we don’t expect any more trouble; but are prepared for it, if it happens. I’ve been advised not to publish any specific information about the individual who was stalking us. That’s the reason for so few updates to this weblog. Instead, I plan to offer some general advice and information about protecting your privacy and identity, and on how to avoid similar situations.

Peace ~

Matt and Anna Parker, Cottage Grove, Oregon

Information on Internet Stalking or CyberStalking

Crime Library has a very informative and interesting article on cyber-stalking (cyberstalking), which serves as an excellent introduction to the subject:

Cyber-Stalking: Obsessional Pursuit and the Digital Criminal

Matt Parker

Cyber Stalking Prosecuted

Glad to see more instances of Internet Stalking being prosecuted in this country and around the world:

Man sentenced for “cyber-stalking”

A Gladstone man was sentenced Tuesday to four months home detention and three years probation for infecting his ex-wife’s computer with spyware that allowed him to watch her online activity.

Jason Russell, 28, pleaded guilty in August, admitting that he purchased a membership in a now-defunct Internet service called Lover-Spy. The service provided spyware designed to remotely monitor a computer and track such things as instant messaging and e-mail.

The so-called cyber-stalking case was the first of its kind prosecuted in federal court in western Missouri.

“The rules of privacy still apply in cyberspace — it is illegal to use this kind of spyware to wiretap another person’s computer,” U.S. Attorney Todd Graves said in a written statement.

“The rules of privacy still apply in cyberspace” ….. I couldn’t agree more with this statement. Privacy is a fundamental “human” right; without it, freedom is not possible.

Matt Parker, Cottage Grove OR

Trey Parker (not Matt Parker), South Park guy

That’s right, the South Park guy’s name is “Trey Parker”, not Matt Parker. A lot of people seem to get this mixed up. And while I appreciate the compliments and credit given me for their show, I had nothing to with it :)

Matt Parker Cottage Grove Oregon (OR)

Fortunately, I guess, there seems to be hundreds or even thousands of Matt Parker’s around the world. It’s a common name. But, as far as I know, I’m the only one living in Cottage Grove, Oregon (OR). I feel sorry any of those others out there who have suffered harassment or embarrassment because of the sick person stalking and attacking me and my family.

The stalker has used anonymous proxy severs and google groups or other anonymous Usenet posting services to flood the Internet with literally thousands of outrageous lies about me, my family or anyone he thinks is associated with me. These Usenet posts become available on many different web sites which in turn are spidered by all of the search engines. Search the web for Matt Parker on any search engine and see what you’ll find. Maybe you found this site that way. I hope so. It’s the purpose of this web site, after all. I don’t expect anyone to be other than passingly interested in this subject. But when there’s thousands of instances of ugly lies spread across the Internet about me, and about my family, I can’t just let it go unanswered.

Thanks to all of those who have contacted us to offer tips, useful information and support – it’s appreciated. Many have asked for an update. I still am unable to say much about it at this time, but am happy to report that something good is happening.

The universe ultimately favors truth and justice.

Matt Parker

Cottage Grove, Oregon (OR)

Google refuses to remove threats against children

In spite of my repeated requests, Google has so far refused to remove any of the google-groups posts attacking my family and myself. All of the posts include incredibly damaging libelous accusations, most contain explicit threats against my family – some threatening to kill my children, or inciting others to do harm to my family.

These post were all made through google-groups accounts. Google has not even terminated the stalker’s accounts! He has used the same google groups accounts to launch these attacks against us for several months.

It’s difficult to understand why Google refuses to take any action. If they won’t remove the posts or even terminate the stalker’s accounts because it’s clearly the right thing to do, they should at least do something because it’s a clear violation of their google groups TOS.

I’m certain if it was their CEO, one of their founders, one of their management team, board of directors or their family being attacked in this way, something would be done.

Matt Parker

Matt Parker – the truth is out there

Ian, from www.zenatode.org.uk, became interested in this situation after witnessing tons of usenet spam attacks against me and my family.

Here’s a excerpt from his site: http://www.zenatode.org.uk/ian/misc/mattparker.xhtml

2004-12-02

If I knew how stressful this would be I might not have put this page up, but my curiosity is now satisfied and I have learned some valuable lessons! The Usenet spam attacking Matt Parker is all part of an elaborate fiction cooked up by someone called Erik van Lint and I have found no reason to doubt the essential truth of Matt’s statement on the matter, which can be found at www.mattparker.org and mirrored locally. By the way, Matt did not reveal his attacker’s name to me – I found it myself in this bizarre thead where the person posting as “jeff” is the one who figured out what was going on. …. Continue …..

That “bizarre thread” is back online, by the way. It did disappear for awhile, I don’t know why. It might have been because of threats by the stalker – he tried that some time ago, posing as an attorney – but I doubt that’s why it was down temporarily. The people at that forum do not seem like the type to fall for such a ridiculous ruse, or bend to pressure from a stalker. If it goes down again, I can always post it locally. For now, I’m refraining from doing that, or from posting any of the other loads of evidence I have, letting the authorities do their work and waiting for justice, however slowly it may come. It will come.

Ian, for the record, I have absolutely no connection to Stephen DeVoy or his problem. I didn’t even look at that part of your web site until after I read your latest post on this subject some time ago. Not because I’m not interested; I just don’t have time. Any similarities between us (Stephen DeVoy and I) are purely coincidental. I feel I need to make that clear, otherwise the stalker who’s after me is likely to turn on him as well. Enough innocent people being hurt already.

Thanks for your article on this subject, especially for clarifying your belief in my truthfulness. I also appreciate your candor.

Matt Parker

Vern Humble – an innocent victim of internet stalking and spam attacks

My family and I are not the only victims of these libelous attacks, threats and stalking. The stalker is so utterly without conscience that he doesn’t seem to care at all who he hurts in the process.

Vern Humble is an honorable man of impeccable character. He’s not related to me and, before I sold him my dating web sites two years ago, I did not know him personally.

Now he is being attacked along with my family and anyone else who the stalker thinks may be related to me somehow. It’s very unfair and proves what a cowardly pathetic liar the stalker is.

All of the stalkers’ claims about me are outright lies. The same is true of his accusations against Vern Humble and his businesses. The stalker only wants to hurt me in any way possible by attacking anyone he believes to be connected with me. If he were not such a coward, he would confine his attacks to me alone, and leave my wife, family and others out of it.

Two and a half years ago, in his attempts at retaliation for reporting his theft, the stalker was exposed publicly as a thief, impersonator and liar, as well as someone with some very bizarre personal habits. He blames me for this. Fine. Attack me (while you can), but leave my family and other’s alone. At least try to be a man, if you cannot be a decent human being.

Matt Parker

mattparker.com

Noticed today that the nut attacking me is including the domain “mattparker.com” in his rants. I don’t own the domain name mattparker.com. I don’t know who does – have never contacted or been contacted by him.

I visited his site and see that he has this nice (free) weblog software “wordpress” installed on his sever also. Besides that (and our name), there’s no connection between us and the attacker should leave him alone.

Matt Parker

Who is Matt Parker?

You may have found this page because you read some death threats against Matt Parker and his family posted on the Internet. As you noticed, there is a lunatic with a lot of time on his hands attacking me and my family. He’s intent on destroying our reputation, our business and our lives. In addition to his vicious and outrageous lies, he has threatened the lives of my family and continually tries to incite others to attack us. He has no conscience or sense of decency, he doesn’t care who gets hurt in the process. He routinely throws names and photos of innocent people completely unrelated to me into his hate-filled rants because he thinks they “might” somehow be connected with me. He is a very sick person.

If you took the time to find this page, it probably means you’re curious why someone hates me so much that he wants me and my family killed. I’m working with the police on this matter, so I can only go into little detail about it here. Way back in July, 2002 we caught the attacker repeatedly hacking into a server I once managed. After we asked him to stop, we received threatening letters, mail bombing and more hacking, so I reported him to his ISP. He also used a stolen credit card number to pay for our services. I reported him for that. Apparently this upset him, so in retaliation he began posting lies about me all over the Internet, trying to incite others to attack me, the sites and the sever I managed. It backfired when he tried this tactic on a web site forum dedicated to “searching” the Internet. One talented guy there found out all sorts of embarrassing and damaging information about the hacker, his crimes and predilections. He disappeared for a long time after that, and I truly thought we’d heard the last from him. But many months later, in the middle of 2003, he began new attacks against me and my family, spreading nasty lies and sending us death threats. I again reported him to the University where he was using the Internet (in Belgium). Again he stopped – for awhile, while frantically trying to remove all traces of his crimes from the Internet. He had created many aliases (used in his various crimes) which were exposed in the above mentioned forum. When he was unsuccessful in doing that, he apparently completely lost his mind …. with the result that you have seen for yourself. Why he blames me for all of his problems, I don’t understand. It’s futile to try to apply rational motives to those who seem to be insane. I guess he blames me for the loss of his alter-egos and the exposure of his other crimes/habits.

Incidentally, I no longer own any of the dating related web sites that are mentioned in his diatribe. I sold them all nearly two years ago. The attacker must know this, but he doesn’t seem to care. By the way, the dating related sites are (and always were) family oriented web sites (not of a “sexual nature”, but simply personal ads/dating/pen pal web sites). The hunting and wilderness adventure web sites are also completely unrelated to me. They simply reside on the same sever. All of the attacker’s accusations are completely untrue, outrageous, unsubstantiated and unprovoked. But anyone with good sense can see that for themselves. Nevertheless, he’s asking others to kill or hurt my family, and I do take the threats, the harassment and the libel very seriously. The damage done to myself and my family (and the potential for more) are very real.

Among many other illegal and weird activities, this guy likes to impersonate people. In his attempt to remove all traces of himself from the Internet, he would often pose as an attorney or some fictitious (or real) organization. Now he’s trying to pretend that he and I are the same person, attempting to hopelessly confuse anyone investigating him. Another favorite ploy of his is to accuse others of his own crimes (sound familiar?). Most everything he’s accusing me of, he’s guilty of himself. His purpose in his endless Usenet/Internet spam is not only to libel, threaten and harass me and my family, but also to cover the tracks of his past crimes by the sheer volume of misinformation. There is evidence of his other crimes out there still that he’s trying to bury. Many of those “aliases” that he lists in his spam are ones he used in commission of his crimes in the past – many are names of “real” (and innocent) people who he impersonated; others he just invented and threw into the list for the sake of confusion.

So, who is this nut case harassing us? If you’re interested in online research and willing to sort through all of his spam, you can find that out easily enough. For the time being, I’ve been asked to not mention his name or address.

I may post more detailed information here in the future, depending on the advice of my council. If you wish to contact me regarding this matter, please use the contact form. As you can imagine, this guy has had many other victims. If you are one also, or if you have information related to this matter, please contact me and I will put you in touch with the authorities investigating him.

As an honest person with nothing to hide, I posted my name, home address, phone number and other personal information on our web sites back before this all started. If I could have foreseen this insane situation, I would not have done that. Internet stalking and identity theft are the fastest growing crimes around the world. Protect your identity! The Internet is a wonderful resource, but unfortunately it provides courage and a vehicle for anonymous attack to otherwise sick cowardly people.

Note to the attacker: Please get yourself some professional psychological help as soon as possible.

Matt Parker – Cottage Grove (OR) Oregon